December 2010
34 posts
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guerrillamamamedicine:
malefeminist:
crystalsavestheday:
Slut-shaming, also known as slut-bashing, is the idea of shaming and/or attacking a woman or a girl for being sexual, having one or more sexual partners, acknowledging sexual feelings, and/or acting on sexual feelings. Furthermore, it’s “about the implication that if a woman has sex that traditional society disapproves of, she should...
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Dear Pyrus: wholesomeobsessive: The LIGHTHOUSE.:... →
wholesomeobsessive:
The LIGHTHOUSE.: 10 Things You Didn’t Know About Kissing
therecipe:
All taken from Sheril Kirshenbaum’s book The Science Of Kissing which comes out January 2011. My elementary comments in bold. 1. Human lips are different from those of all other animals because they are everted, meaning that they purse outward. 2. But we are not the only…
I’d just like to add, for...
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Community- and Partner-Based Intimacy from... →
liquornspice:
This seems like a really awesome framework to use when discussing relationship styles. Thoughts?
Some people reject the romantic vs. aromantic dichotomy. They feel that this model is weighed towards the romantic side, since it is defined by something that a person does; it does not take into account the types of intimate relationships that nonromantic people enter into. Many...
Nene, Peter, and Cynthia should really consider a triangle #polyamory #rhoa
Tiara the Merch Girl: Reblog if you want any one... →
haterina:
aknowledgeofloss:
juthikalala:
shonecakepastrypie:
from4chanwithlove:
In other news, local man dies after an avalanche of asks erupts from his computer, crushing him.
I am not gonna be negative. GONNA STAY POSITIVE.
I AM WAITING FOR YOUR ANSWER CHLOE
I love…
Do make-out buddy relationships always end bad?
tiaramerchgirl:
autostraddle:
i sincerely hope not
Ask Laneia anything
heh, I soon find myself in a position to consider this question for myself…we’ll see how it goes…
My brother and I have the exact same taste in...
tiaramerchgirl:
autostraddle:
he can take the straight ones, you can take the gay ones, and for the bisexuals you will have to fight a duel, like jousting or something like that.
Ask Riese anything
Heh, this is kind of the deal Mark and I have since we often have similar taste in girls. Except instead of jousting, we share (if the girl’s up for it) or we see who the girl likes better. After...
December 17th is International Day to End Violence... →
manifestfreedom:
International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers has empowered workers from over cities around the world to come together and organize against discrimination and remember victims of violence. During the week of December 17th, sex worker rights organizations will be staging actions and vigils to raise awareness about violence that is commonly committed against sex workers....
Tiara the Merch Girl: kiriamaya: “I mean, I like a... →
liquornspice:
guerrillamamamedicine:
kiriamaya:
“I mean, I like a lot of BDSM—but the big turn off for me is that there one active and one passively active person (at least as represented on porn etc). I would prolly feel best as a top, but I don’t want somebody who can “take” my shit in that sense, I want somebody who stands up to the challenge of me….two tops. two don drapers, if you ...
Why are polyamorists mostly white? →
Is Sexual Fidelity the Most Important Part of a... →
A piece by the amazingly awesome Tasha Fierce!
Practicing non-monogamy doesn’t make you a “ho” or a “slut.” I know we are wary of the stereotype of the hypersexualized Black woman. I’m not suggesting that you pull on a pair of booty shorts and go hit up all the potential sex partners you see. What I am suggesting is that we shed the notion that there’s only one way to be in a relationship with...
The Perverts of Color Anthology
Hi friends! As some of you know, I’ve been working with my awesome co-editor on a project to bring together the unheard voices of people of color (POCs) involved in kink/BDSM/polyamory/swinging/fetishism - an anthology to be titled Perverts of Color (pervertsofcolor.com - SFW!). Jaki and I decided to start the project with this mission in mind: a) celebrate the experiences of US...
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10 realistic rules for good non-monogamous... →
The Contract →