December 2011
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How to screw up a poly relationship (and make... →
polyponderous: If you are interested in building strong, healthy polyamorous relationships which allow everyone involved to grow and to seek happiness, there are many resources out there that can help you. You’ll find books, Web sites (including mine!), and all sorts of guidelines that can give you tools to make your relationships better. This is not one of those resources. This is a guideline...
Dec 31st
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putting poly in perspective: Poly Myers Briggs-from Journal of a Polyamorous Triad - proudpoly: http://t.co/vygXNLas
Dec 31st
putting poly in perspective: Poly Myers... →
proudpoly: Found this interesting..” the break down”. And they have a nice blog. Where would I fit in? Where would YOU? xo cactus. Myers Briggs of Poly Styles “Speed” axis: How quickly do you form connections/relationships in general?  Fluid- more rapid in forming emotional and/or sexual…
Dec 30th
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FACT: Pansexuals have been known to pursue...
Dec 29th
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lunaraeron: http://t.co/GN2D7Wun
Dec 29th
lunaraeron: <83 POLY HEART!!!!! Aeron suitably amazed
Dec 28th
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Dec 27th
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Will you support theatre by, for, and about queer... →
eshusplayground: “When I dare to be powerful - to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid”— Audre Lorde Earlier this year, I wrote and produced a play called Tulpa, or Anne&Me that debuted at the Planet Connections Theatre Festivity.  Since that first production, I’ve often been asked about what’s next forTulpa, or...
Dec 26th
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The CFC: Let’s Go OUT to the Movies…& see Pariah! - crunkfeministcollective: http://t.co/ep21ptmh
Dec 26th
The CFC: Let's Go OUT to the Movies...& see... →
crunkfeministcollective: The film Pariah is a queer coming of age story with a Black girl protagonist. nuff said. If you need to know more, its beautifully shot and it’s got some of the best performances I’ve seen in a film in a long time! I’d love to help organize a nationwide OUT at the Movies to make sure…
Dec 25th
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Dec 25th
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Privilege Denying Gay Couple: National Marriage Boycott - My Thoughts - coupleprivilege: http://t.co/v1xJaE6z
Dec 25th
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Privilege Denying Gay Couple: National Marriage... →
coupleprivilege: Stumbled on this today. National Marriage Boycott frames itself as: National Marriage Boycott is a youth-led movement determined to usher in a national culture of acceptance by pledging not to marry until we achieve full federal marriage equality. Thinking about the difference between…
Dec 24th
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Dec 24th
Getting Dumped and Dumping
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Dec 23rd
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Dec 22nd
Polysexuality: not to be confused with...
gynocraticgrrl: Polysexuality refers to people who are attracted to more than one gender or sex but are not emotionally, intimately and/or erotically compatible with all sexes and forms of gender expression. While “pan,” is the Greek prefix for “all,” or “everything,” (and thus pansexuality), “poly” is the Greek prefix for “many.” 
Dec 22nd
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Dec 21st
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A Blog Called Everything: Communication - a-blog-called-everything: http://t.co/ADePNMR3
Dec 21st
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A Blog Called Everything: Communication  →
a-blog-called-everything: Communication must be done in love. I don’t mean the romantic crap here. As much as I like romance, it’s a game. I’m talking about real love. You know, the kind of love that will allow you to call bullshit when someone is fooling himself. The kind of love where instead of getting angry and…
Dec 20th
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Dec 20th
Nonsexual Intimacy
greenchestnuts: For Asexual Awareness Week, Elizabeth Barrette, aka ysabetwordsmith, posted a list of types of nonsexual intimacy that I found really interesting both as an asexual and as a writer: Part One Part Two Part Three Part Four Part Five
Dec 19th
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“To return to love, to get the love we always wanted but never had, to have the...”
– bell hooks in all about love (via restoried)
Dec 17th
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“To distinguish Polyamory from swinging and partnered nonmonogamy, poly relationships are usually…” http://t.co/zW9DnT6w
Dec 15th
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“To distinguish Polyamory from swinging and partnered nonmonogamy, poly...”
– p. 71 of Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships (via littlelostpoly2)
Dec 15th
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“Try standing at a party of queer friends and charting all the histories, sexual and nonsexual, among…” http://t.co/zdCMwg1F
Dec 15th
“Try standing at a party of queer friends and charting all the histories, sexual...”
– Michael Warner (1999) The Trouble with Normal (via bodkins) i don’t actually want to take on the task of teaching people how to define and/or expand their language and experiences concerning relationships, connections, and bonds but i like this quote. it makes me think of how intentional i have...
Dec 14th
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Dec 14th
Inside Trader: How to Choose an Awesome and Safe...
thesavagesalad: orgasmsforeveryone: I sell sex toys for a living. I’ve been selling them for nearly a decade. This is my list of protips to get the best toy you can for your money. There’s a lot here, so let’s get into it. Read More RELEVANT SRSLY IT WILL PROBABLY SAVE YOU MONEY IF YOU FOLLOW THIS
Dec 13th
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“When we suppress access to shamanic ecstasy, we close off the refreshing waters of emotion that flow…” http://t.co/KNMugJv8
Dec 12th
“When we suppress access to shamanic ecstasy, we close off the refreshing waters...”
– Terence McKenna: Food Of The Gods (via fuckyeahpsychedelics)
Dec 11th
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Dec 10th
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A Blog Called Everything: A Secondary's bill of... →
a-blog-called-everything: In a nutshell: I have the right to be treated with dignity, respect, consideration, and courtesy. This is true of any relationship, regardless of its form and regardless of its status. Using the word “right” in this context means “This is something that it is reasonable and normal for me to…
Dec 9th
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Secondaries are People Too →
a-blog-called-everything: Secondary relationships are still relationships and should be treated as such. They are not disposable. This really doesn’t get talked about enough.
Dec 8th
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Dec 7th
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“I still think it’s important for people to have a sharp, ongoing critique of...”
– bell hooks (via kdhume)
Dec 6th
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Dec 5th
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RT @conrazon: transcend the boo prison. much more joy had with clear understanding and pureeeeeeee love without ownership.
Dec 4th
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applecores&peachpits: Is an Open Relationship for... →
applecoresandpeachpits: This has been adapted from the Self-Evaluation in Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships, by Traintan Taormino.You can download the original and other resources here. What are your beliefs about monogamy? If you’ve been in monogamous relationships before,…
Dec 3rd
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