A munch is a social gathering for people who are polyamorous and/or kinky. They’re usually in public places and, thus, kept at PG or PG-13. Munches are great for meeting other poly/kinky people, networking, and just getting out of the dungeon every now and then. FetLife is a great resources to find munches in your area.
NOTICE: MUNCHES ARE TERRIBLE FOR FIRST DATES!!!!
Lovin’ Outside The Box: POCs Redefine Relationships Pt.2
“I honor and respect you (me) enough to be straight forward with where I am.” Really appreciate hearing these discussions around different types of relationships and radical loving. I have my own evolving beliefs so I appreciate these kinds of frank discussions. I think all kinds of relationships can benefit from these kinds of conversations. If you have time take a listen. The second half gets *really* good.
Having sex with other people while you’re in a relationship doesn’t always have to be cheating. So many people are in a constant struggle — to cheat or not to cheat — and it never occurs to them that in order to cheat, they have to accept a set of rules before they can break them.
Why accept the rules? Why not make your own? It’s so much healthier to simply reject the underlying assumption that monogamy and fidelity are interchangeable concepts. They’re not.